Being a natural over-thinker, internalizer and comfort zone enthusiast, I thought I would share what I’ve come to realize these factors have contributed to my life.
I’m sure it goes without saying that comfort zones are the enemy of growth and with that being said- there are far more dangerous factors that contribute to this as well.
Recently, I’ve really started to notice that what kind of energy you put out, is the kind of energy you receive back- not always, but for the most part. For being so young still, there’s a part to growing up that you don’t really realize while it’s happening. It’s subtle… but most of all, enlightening.
It’s the moment that something happens out of nowhere, something that you never saw coming. You may not have been on board with it because it’s not what you had initially planned. BUT, oddly enough- you see your spark start to ignite. For me, this has been a handful of different occurrences (as it will be for most). I guess my point is that when you realize what’s been holding you back all this time is finally gone, it’s freeing but also very telling.
From this point on, you’re supposed to recognize exactly what that was and not ever let it happen again. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not advocating for you to allow these kinds of factors to reappear, but rather to address them in your head. Be wary for what makes you take a step back, be careful who you find that you can’t be your full self around and most important, be content with knowing why that prevents you from growing. I’ve come to the realization that addressing these aspects of your life that you actually can control and taking action to destroy the shit that holds you back not only sets you free- but lets you fly.
The takeaway from this? I’m advocating for you to be more aware of what’s holding your best self back. It starts as small as picturing it in your head. Whether it’s a person, a relationship, self-doubt, etc. Like I said, my situation made me so aware of the fact that I had no idea how much I was holding back.
You can look at it from any angle but the way I try and see it is: holding agency in your own life can be terrifying. Instead, let it empower you to become your best self.
XOXO,
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